Tuesday, November 29, 2016

Tea is for Tuesday!

Christmas to a tea!
Tea is always a good idea but never more so than Christmastime as temperatures drop and friends visit with cookies and other confections.
Do not fret if you are without Christmas themed china, red or green patterned porcelains will lend a holiday feel.
 
Even if you haven't much spare time for decorating, you can add a few small touches to make your home more festive such as silk flower arrangements,
 
poinsettias on the porch,
 
or using the red transferware tea service just for you:).
 
Sit back, relax, and enjoy a cup of tea with friends or with a good book in the quietude of your Holiday home.
 
Blessings from The Parlor!
 
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Monday, November 21, 2016

Monday Meanderings

Let's start a movement to improve the world in which we live!
As humans we are apt to complain about  things we do not like or with which we disagree.
Complaining gets us nowhere.
Instead, let's work together to spread love.
Begin by doing something kind for a stranger; hold a door open, help an elderly person up the stairs, compliment the grumpy person behind the counter on her hair or her eyes, do something positive.
These are simple things that can transform a person's day.
However, there are more pressing matters at hand that require sacrifice and commitment like cooking dinners for the homeless, tutoring children in after school programs, standing beside the unwanted or misunderstood in an effort to shield them from hate.
It is time we stop grumbling about our politicians and start writing letters to congressmen and women demanding they make decisions that represent the people and benefit our nation.
Give thanks that brave men and women have sacrificed their lives for us to vote, to speak freely, and for the opportunity to enact change.
But we have to start somewhere.
Show a small act of kindness today and task yourself to do a bit more tomorrow and then the next day. Challenge your friends to do the same.
We must stand together to battle hate!
We have much to be thankful for in this country. Perhaps we should be grateful for the opportunity to help others and improve the world in which we live.
Anyone up for the challenge?

Blessings from The Parlor!

Sunday, November 20, 2016

Sunday Wisdom

"It is to a man's honor to avoid strife,
but every fool is quick to quarrel."
Proverbs 20: 3, NIV

Saturday, November 19, 2016

More Hairwork

Yesterday I posted some basic guidelines about determining whether a piece of 19th century hair work was sentimental or mourning. In this post I am sharing some photos from ebay to clarify further.
Mourning brooch with black stones in bezel and woven hair under glass.

Fashionable brooch with woven hair insert on charm.

Sepia work with mourning scene.

Fashionable bracelet.

Fashionable hair chain worn on the bodice with hair brooches affixed at the end loops. See photo below-right shoulder. (photo private collection) 


Mourning brooch with hair insert.

 
Mourning brooch with 'Prince of Wales curls' design under glass.

Blessings from The Parlor!
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Friday, November 18, 2016

Freaky Friday!

Victorian Hairwork; Mourning or not?
Mourning pendant done in sepia work where hair is pulverized and mixed with the paint used for the picture, and at times, accented with hair, (Charleston Museum)

Hair cross, possibly mourning due to seed pearl (represents tears) and black enamel trim on gold,(Charleston Museum)

Hair brooch, probably a sentimental piece,  (Charleston Museum)

Hair bouquet in shadow box frame, art form with hair samples from family/friends accented with beads for décor purposes,
 (private collection)

Hair bracelets, possibly mourning (if inscribed on the clasp), otherwise fashion jewelry or love tokens, (Charleston Museum)

For those who enjoy hairwork of the 19th century it can be confusing as to whether or not it represents mourning or sentimentality.
Surprisingly, when searching for these items they are generally listed as mourning when in fact most examples are love tokens.
During the mourning period of the Victorian era, strict guidelines were adhered to regarding length of mourning, behavior, and attire. Mourning customs varied depending upon region, socioeconomic status, who was mourning, and for whom they were grieving.
Generally, mourning was broken down into two segments; first or full mourning and second or half mourning (in some cases second mourning was divided into two increments).
A woman in first mourning was only permitted to wear jewelry made of Jet or Jet-like substances (the topic of Jet is another discussion:). Hair jewelry was not generally worn until second mourning (please keep in mind that this rule may differ depending on the source).
Certain aspects should be considered when trying to determine if a hairwork piece is mourning or a love token.  The only way to prove unequivocally that a piece is for mourning is if it has one or more of the following aspects:
  • the phrase 'In Memory of,'
  • IMO (initials for aforementioned phrase),
  •  mourning  symbolism such as an urn, headstone, or sometimes a cross,
  • black enamel trim/accents or Jet/Jet-like casing
  • date of death inscribed on the piece
 Without the above characteristics one must study the piece to identify its original purpose. In some cases one can only speculate as to the original intent.
For example, there are some mourning brooches with woven hair compartments framed with precious stones  not normally affiliated with death (garnets and seed pearls were often used in mourning pieces) yet have a memorial inscription on the reverse side.
It was not uncommon for a lady to weave a watch chain for her significant other as a symbol of her love. Bracelets, necklaces, and earrings were also worn as sentimental pieces or as a fashion statement. Many sentimental examples, such as linked bracelets with hair compartments or hair wreaths, exist showing hair samples from family members and/or friends. Hair wreaths accompanied by a photo and date of death obviously symbolized a memorial piece. Prince of Wales curls beneath glass in brooches could be for mourning or a love token.
With time and study, it becomes more evident whether the hairwork was made as a sentimental piece or to mourn the loss of a loved one. Regardless, hairwork is an art form that wove the sentimental practices of 19th century life into pieces of art.

Prince of Whales curls under glass of swivel brooch with photo on reverse side, could be mourning or love token, (private collection)

Blessings from The Parlor:).